It really is the most simple thing, and it’s time to shed some light and clear some confusion that I see going on.
The reason you are still stuck in life, whether it is finances, relationships, or health, is simple. You have normalized your current circumstances.
Whatever you find normal will find you.
The Rich vs. The Poor
Take rich people for example. It is so natural and so normal for them to have money.
If you have been struggling financially, then most probably it is very much normal for you to want money. But having it? That feels foreign.
That is why the rich keep getting richer. They expect it. It is their normal.
Stop Putting It on a Pedestal
The mistake so many people make is keeping their goal on a pedestal. You think it is this far off goal that you need to achieve.
You need to take it off the pedestal.
Look at the device you are reading this on. You have normalized owning that device. You don’t cry tears of joy every time you pick up your phone. You don’t get excited that you have a roof over your head right now.
Why? Because it is normal for you.
If you want to manifest a house, you need to normalize living in that house. You should not get super excited about it. If your emotions fluctuate wildly because it isn’t here yet, it means you lack conviction.
Conviction is Knowing
Cnviction is not just a belief. It is knowing.
When you turn on a light switch, you know for a fact the light will turn on. You don’t hope. You don’t pray. You know.
If you want financial freedom, you need to know that you are already financially free.
You Can’t Sit in Two Chairs
You cannot normalize your desired reality while still normalizing your old one.
For a rich person, it is very abnormal to live in a small house. It is abnormal not to have money.
So why are you normalizing poverty? Why are you normalizing toxic relationships?
If you are in a bad situation, you need to start viewing that situation as “weird” or “abnormal.” Stop accepting it as your standard.
How to Actually Normalize It
You might ask how to do this. It is simple.
1. Visualizing Visualize your desired reality vividly. Do it until it becomes boring. Do it until the emotional experience of having it feels familiar.
2. Consistency If you visualize it once, nothing happens. You must be consistent. You need to create that internal emotion every single day.
3. Watch Your Self Concept If you define yourself as someone who is inconsistent, you will never get there. You need to be the person who follows through.
The Trap of Homeostasis
Your subconscious mind and the universe crave balance (homeostasis). They do not want things to change.
They will create situations to keep you in your old frequency. This is why you might self sabotage when you start making more money. You revert back to what is comfortable.
You have to make the new amount of money your new comfortable zone.
REMEMBER!!!
Manifesting is simple.
It is about normalizing your desires.
If you want more money, normalize having it. If you want a relationship, normalize being loved.
Once it becomes normal to you, you automatically detach. You let go because you are not worried about losing something that is normal to you.
Your internal state must change first. Once you change your frequency to match your desire, the universe has no choice but to rearrange itself to match you.
It is Law.
